this is important to new moon girls, must be fully moderated by admin

Yes but only if I can approve said comments.

As a comment to Tropics Lifestyle, on our Wordpress site we currently have the ability to approve for before publishing, delete and edit any posts. Reader engagement is beneficial for SEO. It also drives subscriptions; we have people subscribe to our site specifically to comment on articles.

Hmmm. Not sure how this would look, but would like this feature ONLY if I can control what comments get posted.